TheTroublesomeMattersAreNotMatters

Whenwegraduallygrowup，wemayclearlyrealizethatallthethingswelongforyesterdayarejustturnouttobethecontrary。Webelievewecanstickwithourfriendsforever，butactuallywearenot；wesaywewouldneverforgetallthebeautifulthings，however，willingornow，wedo；then，whataboutthosevows？Aretheystilllyingthere？Never！Thoughwemaysometimeswonderintheoldgooddays，wehavetocomebacktotheearththissecondornext。

YesterdayIreadanarticle，itmentionedaboutpast，presentandfuture。Idon‘thavemuchdeepimpressiononthelasttwo。Butforthepastpart，Ihavethesamevoice。Allthehumanbeingshavethetendencytohunginoldmemoriesandnoneofuswillingtodropit。Weknowthefactthatthosepassedthingswouldneverexistanymore，butwedon‘thavethecouragetotakeit，andwearenotbraveenoughtofaceit。WemustconvinceourselvesthatPastIsPast。Themoreyouvaluetheoldthings，themorelikelyyouwilllostyourprominentthings。Leaveanappropriateroominyourhearttothosethingsandletthemundergoorunder-grow。

OnceIwasreallylivedintheseaofmemories，andialwaysponderedinthosesorrows。Somehowtheonlyresultislostme。Now，IcaneasilyknowthatiammerelywhoIamthisminute。Thereisnoneedformetorememberthosemeaninglessthings。IknowthosewhoIknew10yearsagoaretotallystrangersformenowandevenneverpickuptheirnamesinmyrestlife。IhavetoclaimthatthosewhoIhated5yearsagonowhavenoinfluencetowardme；Iwon‘ttreatthemasmydeadlyenemiesanymore。Itwastesmyenergyandtime。

NowonderthatwhenIgraduatefromthisschoolandsteptothenextlifejourney，Iwouldforgettoday‘ssocalledunforgettablethings。Acceptitornot，wefindthegapbetweenourfriends，oldornew，andusaredeeperanddeeper。Iknowsomedaywemayturntobethemostfamiliarstrangers。Graduallyyouwouldbeaccustomedthelifethatwithnocalling，notextmessageandnoanyone‘scompany。

Tosomeextent，lifeisalonelyjourney。Incaseweshouldbehurtsomeday，weoughttogetourselvesprepared。Thewholethingsthissecondbeforearepast。Weneedpastasourmilestonewhilewedon’tneeditblocksournewlife。

Neverlyinginthesorrowseasanylonger，neverleadamemorylifeandneverrelyonothersforabetterfuture。Lifeisaonewayjourney，noonecouldsailplaininit。Mixtureloneliness，sorrows，happiness，challenges。。。intothislifebox。

Ilongforabrightfuture，Ivalueallmyfriends，iacceptwhatthefutureinstoreforme。

ThoughifailinsomeoftheEnglishfield，butnowIunderstandthatasmallmistakeorevenacarelessoverlookwouldcostmemoretimeandstruggletofillthehole。Idon‘twannaithappenagain，soIwilltryhardtoreachmygoals，time，pleasureorwhateverneedtobesacrificedneedtobe。

Allthetroublesomemattersarejustwaitingfortherighttimetosettleit！